Dear Annie: Tug-of-war over thermostat setting leaves one sibling feeling cold on Thanksgiving

DEAR ANNIE: Every Thanksgiving, my brother hosts the holiday meal -- at my house. He does most of the cooking, which I appreciate, but every year we end up in the same strange tug-of-war over the thermostat. As soon as he starts bustling around the kitchen, he turns the heat down and switches on the ceiling fan. Meanwhile, I’m sitting there shivering in my own home, layered in a sweater and blanket while guests try to pretend they’re not freezing. He says he gets too hot while cooking and needs...