Asking Eric: I’m struggling to let go of the bad times after husband passed away

Dear Eric: My husband of 40 years died July 21, 2023, and I’m having a hard time letting go. He was declining due to dementia, and he treated me very badly in the last couple of months of his life. The pneumonia that he died of was pretty swift-acting, so we never talked about anything. I’m trying to keep the good memories alive and shed the bad, but it’s so difficult. Any suggestions on what I can do? Dear Wife: I’m so sorry for the loss you’re enduring and for...