Righteousness and Relationships

I am of a mixed racial background. My mom is a white first-generation American and spent a large chunk of her adolescence being raised in Germany. My dad is a Black man who hails from the Bay Area and is descendent of Louisiana. I am also a woman, a millennial, and a part of an academic community; I have worked many customer service jobs, and so has my partner, who is Mexican and grew up in the suburbs... All this is to say I belon